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The blame game of personal responsibility

Clichés abound these days. We hear the same platitudes being shouted from the rooftops, even amongst those within our community. “Just work harder!” “If I can do it, so can you!” “Stop expecting handouts!” Yes, Latinos seem to be quite fond of the whole “hard work equals success” mantra. As a result, from among many Read More

The Maria Paradox

During my work with Latino youth, I am proud to say that I have witnessed an exponential rise in the number of intellectually superior, upwardly mobile Latinas. More and more of our community’s women are graduating from college, receiving advanced degrees, and pursuing professional roles in the fabric of society. In spite of this, as Read More

Beware of shiny objects: How not to fill the Latino leadership void

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Some of you may recall an alarming study conducted a little over a year ago by the Pew Hispanic Center, in which Latinos were asked a simple question: “name the person who you consider to be the most important Latino leader in the country today.” A whopping 64 percent of respondents answered “I don’t know.” Read More

Helping families through mental illness

The prevalence of mental illness has risen over the years, primarily because our diagnostic tools have greatly improved, and our scientific understanding of mental illness has grown exponentially. However, when a close family member is the person afflicted with mental illness, our method of helping the person is often clouded by our great desire to Read More

An open letter to our support system

The holiday season has drawn to a close, and for many, it has left memories of fun celebrations, gatherings with friends and family, and reminders of unconditional love and support. The sad reality remains, however, that for some the holiday season instead represented a time of somber reflection on past trauma. And as individuals seek Read More

Latino New Year’s resolutions: A call for self-examination

As the curtain comes down on another year, many of us will take some time to sit back and reflect. And as the dawn of a new year approaches, many of us will also attempt to adopt a resolution that will lead to self-improvement, greater happiness, and a better quality of life. As I reflect Read More

Feeding, fighting, fleeing, and fornication: Sound like your Christmas gathering?

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Ahh yes, tis the season, ladies and gentlemen. It is time to spend hours in airport security, traffic, and retail stores in a supposed effort to spread peace on earth and goodwill towards men. Many of us who have large Latino families, however, would gladly fight through crowds at the local Macy’s than spend just Read More

More than just the holiday blues: A look at seasonal depression

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It’s the most wonderful time of the year…at least in theory. That’s right folks, amidst the falling snow, slowed traffic, long lines at the airport, and shopping centers so crowded that one wonders how there is ample oxygen for all, the holiday season is in full swing. But for many, the holiday season is instead Read More

The forsaken and invisible: a look at homelessness in the US

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With Thanksgiving in the rearview mirror, most of us find ourselves in full-fledged holiday mode. Regardless of religious affiliation (or lack thereof), the time between Thanksgiving and the end of December is usually the time when we are able to spend the most time with family and loved ones. But as we shop for presents, Read More

Paradise lost: navigating the world of childhood sexual abuse

When working with an at-risk population of adolescents, listening to stories of triumph and tragedy makes a person appreciate the resilience of our youth. However, I have also heard many stories of profound trauma and pain, stories that have admittedly kept me awake at night, questioning my faith in human beings. I estimate that over Read More