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The strength of a mother

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Out of all the substances known in the universe, there isn’t anything stronger than a mother’s love for her children. I witnessed it firsthand growing up, though I was too young to realize it. My father was…well, he had a lot of issues. He was violent, beating up on my mom, little brother and I Read More

Father accused of trying to sacrifice son in cemetery

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A father is accused by police of attempting to sacrifice his 8 year old son. Police said that Joseph Ramirez, 30, took three of his children to the  Mount Hope Cemetery in San Diego and starting slicing the forearms of his 8-year-old son. Ramirez reportedly had been hearing the voice of his dead grandmother in his Read More

When “Hey, mira Mami” can’t be a Mommy: 4 tips for coping

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It’s not true that every little girl dreams of being a Mom. I personally know quite a few women who have no desire to have children, now or ever. I’m not one of them, but sometimes I envy their certainty. Not wanting to be a Mom would make my current situation easier to accept. See, Read More

To c*ño or not to c*ño

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“¡Mi amor! You can’t talk like that anymore!” My husband reminds me yet again. Yet again, I’ve slipped and I’m cursing like a sailor in front of our 10-month-old baby. Once you have children, this is one of those things you’re supposed to stop doing (at least, in front of them). I began to reflect Read More

Shiloh Jolie-Pitt is a lesbian?

One of the things I love most about being a Tía is sitting down with my nieces and nephews for one-on-one conversations. They love to talk to me because I listen to them and ask questions with the same undivided attention I’d give any adult.  I believe it helps them to know that their thoughts Read More

Latino family values

I recently had a flashback to when my girls were younger and I heard not-so-nice words come out of their mouths. We had a discussion about adult words and children’s mouths. You know, the kind of discussion that starts with “We need to talk” and ends with “Because I said so.” As a parent, I Read More

The Poppy vs. Papi debate

Let me just start off by saying I love my in-laws but sometimes I seriously question whether or not they get me and my Latina culture.  So I am completely annoyed with the fact that my mother-in-law refers to my husband’s dad – who we are teaching my son to call grandpa – as “poppy” Read More