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Feeling Latino

by Cindy Tovar

How many of you think about your Latino essence on an hourly, or even daily, basis? I know I don’t. As I go along my day to day routine, the fact that I’m Latina doesn’t stay a constant in my mind. It’s a part of me that has shaped me with certain experiences that are unique to my culture, but I don’t always think about it.

But sometimes, as I go about my business, I hear a certain song or I hear a certain phrase on the street, that reminds me I’m Latina. Don’t get me wrong: it’s not that I forget. It’s just that in the course of a day, there are times I feel Latino, and times when it doesn’t really matter. Fortunately, I live and work in a place where I see all types of people, but I’m sure if this wasn’t the case, I might be made aware of my ethnicity more often.

It’s the music that does it for me. When a really classic salsa song hits my MP3 player, it’s all I can do to keep from dancing in the middle of the subway station. For a friend of mine, it’s watching fútbol. He takes pride in following the teams of our Latin-American countries. For others, it may be the food. A Tupperware full of rice, beans, and pernil being heated up in the microwave at the office may be enough to do it.

Sometimes, all it takes is an interaction, like one I had with the parent of a child in my class. I called to find out why the little boy had arrived at school with a black and blue mark on his cheek. It turns out he tripped and fell face first into a chair. Fine. But only a fellow Latino would have understood the remedy his mom chose: Vaporu, or as it’s most commonly known, VapoRub.

There are times when you’re reminded that you’re Latino, and you have to shake your head and smile, as I did while talking to this mom. Obviously, she didn’t know any better. But most of the time, all I need is to hear a great song through somebody’s earphones, and it brings me back to my roots, along with a surge of pride.

For some of us, just being from a certain country isn’t enough to make us feel Latino. Our sazón may season some of the things we do, but not at every moment of every day. Sometimes, all you need is a little platano maduro, or an announcer screaming “Goooooooooool!”, or Larry Harlow singing La Cartera, to remember where you came from. Sometimes, our essence is in the little things.

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To learn more about Cindy, visit Dagny’s Dichotomy.

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Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this article are solely those of
the author and should not be understood to be shared by Being Latino, Inc.

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About Cindy Tovar

Born in Flushing, Queens to Colombian parents, Cindy has always loved reading and writing. For this reason, she entered Montclair State University to pursue an English degree, but instead fell in love with and graduated with a B.A. in Psychology. During her time at Montclair State, Cindy joined the Latin American Student Organization (LASO) on campus. She immediately felt comfortable surrounded by peers that shared both love and pride for the Latino culture, something she had never experienced before. She ultimately became president of LASO. Since then, Cindy has earned her M.S. Ed. in Early Childhood Special Education from Bank Street College, and works as a bilingual Special Education preschool teacher in Brooklyn. Despite feeling exhausted by the time she reaches her New Jersey home, she still uses her spare time to write. Joining the Being Latino family is one of the best things that has happened to Cindy because it fulfills her in two ways: She can write to her heart’s content while reaching an engaging audience, and it helps her stay connected to her Latino culture. You can find more of Cindy’s writing on her personal blogs: Dagny’s Dichotomy, and Cindy’s Chronicles.

Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this article are solely those of the author and should not be understood to be shared by Being Latino, Inc.

Comments

  1. I think of it every day I interact with people or when I speak Spanish (which is every day). I remember when I used to be afraid to speak Spanish (and English for that matter) but was always expected to know both (torn between two worlds and wanted by none). As I got older, I focused on bettering my Spanish to the point where I am proud to speak it. I am proud because you can hear my “Gringo” accent but I have a way with my words that you understand what I am saying and in some cases, enjoy hearing it, both professionally and personally.

    I also am reminded when I meet a non-Latino and they learn that they just made a new Latino friend, which means they have access to someone they can ask questions like how to dance bachata or sangria, how to cook and what is it like being seen as sexy (well, that might be a personal experience as a Latino but you get my point :) .

    But there is a darkside to this, but thats for another article.

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