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The enemy at the gates

by Nick Baez

Through my work with various Latino organizations over the years, most notably the National Hispanic Institute, I have come across many talented, intellectually sound Latino youth from throughout the U.S. and Latin America. I cannot help but feel a sense of pride and a feeling that our future is being placed in the hands of a very capable group of young men and women. However, there is also a dangerous foe out there that constantly threatens to rob our community of its best and brightest. It is a pervasive enemy that, especially for those of us who live here in the U.S., face on a daily basis. I’m referring to the allure of comprehensive assimilation into mainstream American culture.

And why wouldn’t this allure be very appealing indeed? One only need to watch television for one day to get a sound grasp on the narrative that has been created in popular discourse regarding the Latino community. From the idea that Latinos are a bunch of “welfare queens,” to the idea that Latinos willfully break the law to “take our jobs and resources,” to the lack of visible Latino role models in popular media, to the implication that to be Latino is to be a second class citizen, the Latino community is portrayed as anything but a destination community. Such messages need not be overtly bigoted to have a significant and lasting impact.

This becomes especially clear when our youth become bombarded by these narratives during a time in which (from a psychological and neurological perspective) they are beginning to develop and consolidate a sense of their identity and self-efficacy. Worst of all, the message our brightest minds receive is that, in order to not “waste” their talents, they must seek to distance themselves from the Latino community as soon as possible. They are fed myths about the illusory one-to-one correlation between hard work and success, and they are encouraged to adopt a mindset of rugged individualism.

The problem with this is multifaceted. First, this mindset teaches our youth the following: “YOU alone are responsible for your success; YOU alone became successful in spite of your community holding you back.” This perpetuates a chasm of disconnect between our youth and the greater Latino community. Second, this mindset creates a narrative that those who have not achieved an equal degree of success were just simply not willing to put in the necessary “hard work.”  This serves to create a widespread lack of empathy for the community as a whole. Third, this mindset promotes individual attainment of status and power, rather than a civic and moral responsibility to add wealth and equity to the greater community. As a result, selfishness is practically lauded as a virtue; we see this in the mentality of many Latinos who feel they have “made it” in this world (i.e., “So long as I got mine, who cares about the next person?”).

Unfortunately, the allure of assimilation is very powerful. It leads to apathy with respect to civic engagement/volunteering, and it causes many Latinos to identify with the very mindsets that cause the greater community deep pain and injustice. We must continue to fight this pervasive enemy by taking control of our own narrative and allowing our youth to see themselves as being a significant part of the wonderful phenomenon that is the Latino community.

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the author and should not be understood to be shared by Being Latino, Inc.

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About Nick Baez

Nick Baez, M.S. is a native of New York, New York (Lower East Side) and currently resides in Denver, Colorado. Throughout his academic and professional career, he has been a scholar in the fields of psychotherapy, anger and aggression research, trauma, youth leadership initiatives, and teaching. Committed to sound research and program development, Nick has been instrumental in tailoring programs to fit the needs of various communities, and subsequently evaluating those programs to ensure that they meet goals and standards. Most recently, Nick was the Mental Health therapist at Centennial High School in Fort Collins, CO. He has been a psychotherapist for 7 years, and specializes in adolescent populations. He has worked extensively with the National Hispanic Institute for 15 years, serving initially as a junior volunteer and currently as a senior staff member and senior alumnus. Through his work with the National Hispanic Institute, Nick has worked closely with thousands of high school students in helping develop initiatives to prepare them for leadership in the 21st century. Nick has conducted peer-reviewed research on risky behavior, anger, anger expression, and aggression, and has been previously recognized for his work by the Rocky Mountain Psychological Association. Nick has also done research on psychological trauma and its effects on cognition and interpersonal relationships. He has been invited on numerous occasions to give special lectures on trauma, co-dependency, ethnic identity, and social conflict.

A cum laude graduate of the College of Natural Sciences at Colorado State University in Fort Collins, CO, Nick holds a degree in Psychology. He additionally holds a Masters degree in Counseling Psychology from Colorado State University, and is currently a doctoral candidate there.

Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this article are solely those of the author and should not be understood to be shared by Being Latino, Inc.

Comments

  1. nora says:

    nick, i really appreciate your piece. as a girl, i told my mama we were learning about the “melting pot” that is america. she sat me down, explained that melting pots destroy the original form of the objects placed within. she added that, we, as latinos, must be like caldo de res, each vegetable, each piece of meat retain their own flavor, but share in the overall new flavor that results. i refused to accept those lessons after that. i schooled a couple of nuns in the process.

  2. Paola says:

    First off, I love Nora’s post! Secondly, I don’t know whether to be glad that you tagged me onto this article on facebook or completely offended haha. Expect a note or blog post about this soon. I need to get my thoughts together.

  3. Mary says:

    Is this a parody? If you don’t want to assimilate then go back to Mexico!

  4. vivirenelamor says:

    Love the piece! @ Nora-Keep fighting the good fight! @ Mary, thanks for the giggle! (Warmed my heart and filled me with pride) Why? Because your comment reaffirms that when I served in the United States Army to uphold a democratic system that guarantees personal freedoms, I did not do it in vain. I proudly served and would do it again to protect your right to have your own opinion. Democracy Reigns! Sometimes, it is the small reminders that help! By the way, just so you know who to show your gratitude for that freedom-a whole lot of soldiers from all walks of life that brought their culture, traditions, and pride to put on the Army green. (A tidbit to help you sleep at night, an M16 will still fire regardless if the soldier “assimilates” to whatever politically correct state they should be “assimilating” to) Gracias! Have a good day!

  5. Richard says:

    Excellent statement Mr. Baez. To assimilate is to lose ones individuality and pride in ones culture. To see the result of this mistaken course one has to look no further than the Europeans who not only left their countries and ancestral homeland and family members to fend for themselves against all enemies internal and foreign, but in many cases changed their names and denied the very roots of their ethnicity. In the name of assimilation they nolonger spoke their native tongue or practiced the cultural ways that are at the root of their ancestral history.As a result, we are left with the offspring of people who chose to commit treason against their European country and ancestral homeland.Since their abanding their European home they have a social and military occupation of our Native American ancestral homeland. To Mary I say, we were here thousands of years before there ever was a Mexico and we will be here long after the likes of you are gone from our Turtle Island.

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